Arlington is too ambiguous in the source material to describe as a single lived-in city, and there are no Reddit posts or comments here to ground a local perspective. Based on the travel-guide note alone, the only safe conclusion is that the name refers to multiple places, so daily life would vary completely depending on which Arlington you mean. There is not enough evidence to responsibly summarize the food, nightlife, pace, or neighborhood feel. If you mean a specific Arlington, the state or metro area would be needed to give an honest city-living picture.

Rochester is not a single clear daily-life story in the source material, so the safest read is that there is no strong Reddit consensus here. The lack of posts suggests either a thin sample or that people discussing Rochester are spread across multiple places with the same name. With no usable local comments, any description of pace, food, nightlife, or weather would be guesswork rather than lived experience. In short: the available Reddit evidence is too sparse to responsibly characterize what it is like to live here.